
I think we all have experienced getting emotionally overwhelmed from time to time, and sometimes we act out. It’s not good for us or anyone else if we do that. So, what should we do? A deep dive into what triggers our emotional response is the first step. Some can do this alone and others may need professional help. We are not alone. There is always help.
Once the triggers are identified then set a plan to keep away from them, or more realistically, learn techniques to handle these emotional responses. Some of these techniques could be creating some space by walking away even for a few minutes. Try concentrating on breathing and being mindful of how the body is feeling. Sometimes petting or cuddling an animal can bring calm feelings. I’ve heard putting your hands in water and focusing on the feeling is very relaxing. And taking a walk and connecting to nature is a great way to clear the head. Find what works for you. And don’t forget to get enough sleep. The body so needs that rest and escape from the world.
That deep dive into the mind of why we get emotionally triggered is the most important step we can do for our self care. Don’t ignore negative feelings. They won’t go away without positive action. We all need a little help to live a balanced and happy life.
“Empty yourself of everything – let the mind become still.” ~ Lao Tzu
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Thank you, Elizabeth 🙂 Many hugs.
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Great Post Michele. It’s so important to be still and contemplate our thoughts, beliefs and actions. Change only manifests from knowing ourselves deeply. 🙏🏻🧡
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Thank you, Karen. It’s so true isn’t it, that we need to be still and think about what makes us tick. It’s the only way we get to really know ourselves.
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Yes 🙏🏻
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Indeed Michele, allow ourselves that time to understand it. Even dissect it to understand it. They do take time, but in the end so worth finding us. And once it is understood it loses its power over us…and we are free. Great post kind lady, ever help in this life’s garden. Thank you for sharing 😀❤️🙏🏽
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Hi, Mark. It does take time and work to get to the point of understanding ourselves. But, like you have said, so worth it in the end. Thank you.
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Hi. Real good essay. The better we know ourselves, the better our lives (and the lives of the people around us) will be.
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Many thanks, Neil. What you have said here is so true. And life would be so much easier for all of us.
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Inspiring and profoud post, Michele. You have given good pointers that we need to practice and as you said negative emotions will not go we have to practice positive emotions in our lives. Lovely quote by Lao Tzu.
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Thank you, Kamal. There is always a perfect quote from Lao Tzu.
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Welcome dear Michele and yes he is awesome ❤️
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Not an easy path, Michele, but definitely the way to go!
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I think the key, Pam, is the desire has to be greater than the path.
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I think you’re right, Michele. 🤔
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Beautiful post! I think that we need to believe on ourselves 👌
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Thank you so much, Priti. I agree with you, we really do need to believe in ourselves.
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A very constructive post, dear Michele. Loved reading it👍🙂
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I’m so happy that you enjoyed it, Saima. Thank you so much 🙂
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