Grudges

“Don’t carry a grudge. While you’re carrying the grudge the other guy’s out dancing.” ~ Buddy Hackett

We’ve all experienced having a grudge or two. Sometimes it really eats away at you. And, when you think about it, what a waste of your precious time. As we have all learned during this pandemic, time is so very precious.

Experiencing resentment can happen so easily at work, with friends, neighbors, and especially with family. I would say it’s better to have a sit down with the person or persons who you’re having a problem with and talk it out, but I know better because I have experienced how that can go so horribly wrong. Egos at war can really make a mess.

Depending on the people you’re dealing with, you might be able to talk problems through, but for those times that it would make things worse, I suggest writing a letter for your eyes only and let it all out how you feel. Read it a few times, and really analyze how you feel and maybe where you might have played a role too. Then throw the letter away and move on with your life.

Holding grudges will make you sick and it never changes anything.

Take a deep breath. Feel vindicated and let it all go.

“In the end these things matter most: How well did you love? How fully did you live? How deeply did you let go?” ~ Jack Kornfield

Moving On

Go on and just let go. Sweep out all those old resentments, disappointments, sadness, hurts of all kinds, and confusions galore. White knuckle flyer why are you holding on to all of them so tight? You know what? It’s simply a bore!

Even though it seems like you do, you really don’t have an infinite amount of time to live on this planet, so why spend it all bound up with negativity leaking in from every door? Remember, you have the power to change the direction you are heading for.

Moving on and letting go can be hard because you know all too well the misery you have been living with, and you don’t really know what’s behind that other door. Be brave and go for it. Close the door to what you know and take a chance on something so much more. You’ll be happy that you did because this will be the beginning of living your life with joy right up to the end.

Life is so good when you jump right in!