Too Centered

Our lives are very busy—especially if we are working, raising children, and caring for our own parents. We get centered on things that we feel are important like education, making money, getting ahead in our jobs, simply surviving. And sometimes we forget to tell the ones we love that we “Love Them.” Maybe it’s that we don’t think we need to remind them. After all, we told them that a long time ago, didn’t we? They should just know.

But do they know? Maybe not. We can’t just assume. If we are so caught up in making it through each and everyday we just might miss the human component of our lives. It’s that part of our lives where even if the person we love is at times driving us crazy, or we are just feeling tired, worried, fed-up and even mad, we are still able to show how much we love them.

With our aging parents we can become exhausted from all the running around of errands we do for them, and tired of hearing the same old stories over and over again, but they still need to hear that we love them. And all the wild things our kids do that upset us, they too need to hear those tender important words of love. It’s not only when our kids are young that they need to hear it, but also when they are adults and struggling with their own grownup lives.

Sometimes we can just get too centered on what we feel is important and probably is, but we must not forget about the human side that speaks of only love. That human side is what your kids will remember about you and treasure, and it’s what will make your parents feel warm and safe in your care. Without that reminder of love, life can be bitter cold.

Be mindful and free with saying “I Love You.”

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8 thoughts on “Too Centered

  1. smilecalm says:

    such a wonderful encouragement, Michele!
    we should all go to the mirror right now
    and rehearse for our daily verbal expression
    embracing loved ones 🙂

  2. The three most powerful words in the universe Michele ❤

  3. pjlazos says:

    Thanks for the reminder, Michelle. Life is indeed harrowing and even when in thing drops off the list there are five other replacements so taking the time to say I love you is an investment in the future.😍

  4. Jenna Dee says:

    Great advice Michele. Saying those few words can make all the difference to our loved ones ❤

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