Going Off the Rails

Do you sometimes overreact in situations and basically find yourself going off the rails? Then it’s time to step back and figure out what is really going on in your world that is making you too sensitive to the life you are leading.

It’s easy to get ourselves into the habit of overreacting. It’s part of this racing around modern world that we are now living in. We don’t take a moment to think things through before our mouths open up and we blurt something out in response to a situation that either needs some time to think on, or no response at all. I think this is also a problem of us not connecting with each other anymore. We don’t connect, we just react.

But if you find this going off the rails happening in your world too much then there’s a deeper reason why and it’s time to step back, take a deep breath, and be honest with yourself. Maybe you are just unhappy with portions of your life, or maybe it’s your whole life that’s not working out for you. If any of this is true, then it’s time to make some changes.

Change is never easy, but it is always better than living a life that’s not working well for you. First thing to do is clear your head and stop listening to your ego. Listen to your gut–that sweet quiet Spirit that is you. What do you really want to do with your life? Don’t be afraid; fear is your enemy and will always put the brakes on what you should be doing.

A very apprehensive little girl going into the 4th grade was wondering if this school year was going to be a good one for her. She was concerned about what kind of teacher she would have, how hard the work would be, and the other kids. I told her it was up to her what kind of year she would have. I explained she had the power over herself and no one or anything else. If she wanted a good year then she had to make it so.

You too have the power to change what’s not working in your life. Don’t go off the rails and just be a reactor, take control and design the life you want. By doing this, you will find that you will be a calmer and overall happier little human. And while you at it, throw that fear out the window–it’s such a bother.

“If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.” ~ Milton Berle

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11 thoughts on “Going Off the Rails

  1. Touche, I needed that Michele 🙂
    I had a little problem over the weekend and I allowed it to start wandering down ‘that’ path.
    Gratefully accepted and put into use, thank you 🙂

  2. smilecalm says:

    wonderful encouragement
    for staying
    on track 🙂

  3. I needed your encouragement. Mu life feels like it is in shambles but I am not going to let it get out of control. I am doing something about it and will jump over each hurdle with pride and a sense of control. As usual, thank you for your support with everything you write. Dear Michelle.

  4. I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through a rough patch, Jude. You’re a strong gal and I know you’ll get through it. Always know that you can count on my support and love.

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